I have been asked several times over the last couple of weeks how to get the most out of a networking organization membership and figured it was time to get the word out so to speak about how I think you can benefit the most from that membership.
How I network and begin building relationships is not the same as how others suggest you do it…not by a long shot! I have seen and heard some people spout nonsense about not getting any return on your time investment in an organization for at least 6 months. If it takes that long then you are doing something drastically wrong in my opinion.
So how do I do it?
It’s simple (I said simple not easy):
- Attend every single function/event the organization puts together no matter how inconvenient.
- Meet at least 10 new people at each event you attend. Please note that I said “new” people, talking to the same people over and over again is not what you are there for…build relationships on your own time not there.
- Spend no more than 5 minutes with each person…refer to my post on netWORK vs. netBS to learn what to say and how to say it.
- Within 3 hours of meeting that person send them an email saying how nice it was to meet them at such and such event and ask them to have a cup of coffee sometime soon (within a week) to learn more about what they do.
- Go to coffee and ask them questions for about 30 minutes to find out exactly what they do and who they do it for. Then answer those same questions to them about what you do and who you do it for. Actively listen to everything they say about themselves and their business…make sure you don’t interrupt and don’t take over the conversation and talk about you until it is your turn to do so.
- That same day drop a handwritten thank you letter in the mail thanking them for their time and expressing the hope that you can refer them lots of business.
- Scour your contact list and find 3-5 people you know that might be interested in what your new networking buddy is selling or who sells something that has a similar target market. At least once a week for the next month find a way to bring together your new networking buddy and the contacts you thought of for him/her. You can either email them both and introduce each other so they can take it from there or you can schedule a cup of coffee with them both and introduce them in person and help the conversation get started or you can just email the new networking buddy the contact info and tell them to call/email so and so. Be very careful here…you might want to contact the person you know and ask permission to introduce them to your new network buddy!
- Get in touch with your network buddy at least once a week for a couple of months to solidify the relationship and to keep your name/business in the front of their mind. Vary the method of contact between email, phone call and greeting card to make sure they get the message and remember who you are.
- Find an excuse at least once a month to have a cup of coffee with them and don’t mention your business at all unless they bring it up…make it all about them and what they do and how they are doing. By doing this you become a friend that is concerned about them and not just a business acquaintance.
- The referrals and the persistent contact will make them feel obligated to try and help you out since you have been such a big help to them and you will earn a level of trust so they will begin actually thinking about you when talking to prospects, customers and friends. All of this will begin the flow of referrals in your direction.
- Contact every member of that organization.
- Send an individual email or call them to introduce yourself as a new member of such and such organization. Spread this out over a couple of week period of time so you are not inundated and overwhelmed.
- In the email let them know that you are a new member and that you would like to sit down with them over a cup of coffee to learn more about what they do.
- Find out if they will be going to any of the upcoming events the organization is hosting and if so try to schedule your get together for immediately before or after that get together. This will make it convenient for them which will endear you to them.
- During this initial get together talk about them and their business mainly and minimize how much time is spent on you and your business. The more time you let them talk the more they will like you and the more they will allow you to tell them who you are and what you do at a later time.
- At this point you can begin following the steps mentioned above and start sending them referrals and following up with them.
Is this time consuming? YES
Is this a get rich quick scenario? NO
Will this produce a steady stream of leads that are high quality? YES
Will this method get you lots of people who are out there selling your product for you over time? YES
When you develop relationships with people in an organization that you are very visible in and committed to it will get noticed and you will build a sizable book of business from it.
The SalesGuy

